I was very dislike the ungrateful attitude. He did not bother the time, effort and money I spent to help him. He looked down upon me. I was very angry. After some times, I thought about it. I did not need to waste my effort for a person who looked down upon me. I had my bottom line! Hence I dropped him.
Give up!

His Own Way
The other person who I took care of for six years annoyed me last year. He did not think twice and used the vulgar language towards me in the e-mail. I was very upset and shocked. The vulgar language had overwritten my love and care for six years.

I am as old as a grandfather. I hence took him as my grandson. From the first time we met, I noticed that he needed guidance. I used to stop him from moving to the wrong path. He was not willing to accept. He wanted his own way.

I kept hoping that he should try his best to be punctual when we met. I was elder and why made me waiting for him every time!

Once, I actually decided to drop him!
We made an appointment. I left home early as the weather was not so good. It was heavy rain on the way. When I reached the meeting place, I was about one hour earlier. So I was wandering in the shopping mall around and around.
I then received his phone call. I thought he would give the excuse that he would be late. But he told me that he was not coming as it was raining. I told him that I was already in the shopping mall. If he was not coming, never mind.
At that time, I decided not to make appointment with him any more.
He finally came, but we missed the opportunity to take dinner together.

But this time he stepped on my bottom line: using vulgar language!
He has to have the courage to apology and correct his mistake. He has to move on the same path with God as me. Otherwise, I would give up on him!

Arrogant
I was happy that a youth had escaped the devil's clutches and found the place he liked.

I have been praying for him these years. I hoped that he could forget those bullies during childhood, he could be grateful towards those who helped him, he could learn to be polite, stop using vulgar language and live a new life.

He always considered himself in the right. He ignored what I mentioned about the vulgar language. He thought it was common in the western society. He thought the western people were coarse. I was not ignorant of the western society. He was just a frog in the well.

I knew that he was been bullied when he was young. He was very intelligent, but lack of wisdom.
I was glad when the Harvard University College Open Campus Initiative invited him to give a talk. I thought he could stand up and live a new life.
But he did not take any advice, he did not want to change, he still used vulgar language.

After watching the video, I was very angry. He did not keep his promise to be polite.
Give up!

He did not understand that the western society also looking into good manner and conserve.

Motherfucker! Such a vulgar language made him sunk!