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When my son was at the Secondary School, he ever
talked to me about our nagging mama. He was annoyed
that Mama kept asking him to take his meal and he
needed a rest after a tired school day.
I told him that Mama loved him and concerned about him. Just that Mama did not know how to LOVE. He was not convinced initially. I told him that the number of years we have waited for him to be born and the years ha has spent, that was how long I got used to the LOVE. He smiled. When getting older, we may suffer from Alzheimer's disease. It starts slowly and get worse over time. So the nagging may stimulate our brain cells and make them active. Hence it will not get worse so soon. If we know that the nagging is a loving care, it is lucky that there are people love and care for us. Even if we do not say out, we have to thank Mama for her love and concern. Hence just response with a smile for the nagging and answer with "ok! ok!". Be happy! Be patient for the nagging. That was the way for Mama to show her love and care. It is good for her too. Just change the mind set, then no more angry and no more disturb. We will have a peaceful family life. Cheers! |